Hello to all?? I want to understand something that is not clear to me. I often see lesbian couples out and about in the world and I wonder why there seems to be a huge amount of role playing where lesbian couples are involved. One person clearly seems to be in the role of the lady and the other person is in the role of the man. The one that is in the role of the man, dresses like a man, walks like a man and really looks like a man. Again, I just want to understand, but how are you a lesbian if you are involved with a female that is in the role of a man? Is it because underneath all the clothes and the manly stlye lies a female?
I see more lesbian couples in a apparent male/female role than I do where both lesbian women are femine and are a couple.
The titles that have come in to play within the lesbian community are down right sad to me. If we spend all or most of our lives trying not to be put in a catagory, then why do we end up doing it anyway? Why do we have to be classified as "butch", "dike", "lipstick lesbian" etc.. Who cares? We should honestly get out of bed everyday live our lives and if we come across someone we are attracted to, then pursue them, date them, get to know them and love them. Don't waste valuable time with a meaningless title it will only slow you down.
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